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    • This is probably a longer answer than you were expecting, but... I still feel a little odd about it, I don’t know why, but my panties are personal to me (I didn’t even try the bra. I’m a DD and she’s a C), and giving them to someone else is an intimacy that I’m not entirely comfortable with. Of course that sounds odd for someone in the lifestyle - I mean I’ve gone down on this woman and she on me, what’s more intimate than that? So I'm trying to think in terms of "it's no big deal." I think some of my enjoyment that night came from the arousal that my husband got from it, and knowing that she was also aroused by it, and not even there. Another big part of why I enjoyed it was the exhibitionism aspect. Since I was young I’ve had body issues. I’ve got large labia and a very large clitoris, and past partners have made me feel ashamed of it.  I can’t tell you how many times I had to say, “it’s not a penis, so don’t treat it like one!” My husband was the first person to not only find it very sexy, but also normal. And since meeting him, I’ve grown more and more comfortable with my body and in my own skin - to the point where I really get off sharing it (in small ways, “controlled flashing” I call it). So the short answer is sure, I’d do it again if she asked me to. The long answer, as with most things, is a little more complicated.

      btw, I have not returned them yet. This just happened this week, and I'm still deciding whether I'll wash them. Not sure what her kink is there, perhaps I'll ask. They did get pretty soaked ; ) And in case you're wondering, I am very much a fan of cum, but dried cum in used panties? Not my thing. I hope she washes mine!

    • On 3/26/2024 at 7:37 PM, ThickHips said:

      Thank you for your replies, some really helpful ones and insightful. I guess initially breaching the topic is a challenge for me, we roleplay and fantasise about fucking in front of someone, and even being joined, but when we're not having sex we don't have those discussions, and it becomes a bit of a dichotomy where the division between "sex talk" and "real talk," makes me worry about his reaction/feelings if I say I want him to purely watch: although reading some of the replies about boundaries being pushed etc, very erotic. 

      My GF is not too different from you in that she loves the loss of control and having boundaries pushed, and yes, even sometimes "lines" crossed.  It's consensual non-consent, and it's nothing to be ashamed of.  I don't think there is anything wrong with that if that is what you're into.  If you want to be dominated and taken control of by another man then that is fine and you can express that to your SO.  However, that doesn't mean you should expect him to give up control or be humiliated as part of the process.  It's possible that he might like that but he might not, and trying to surprise him with it would not be a good idea.

       

      Is it giving up control and being dominated and humiliated yourself that is a turn on or does your fantasy require your SO to be dominated, controlled, and humiliated?  The former is easier to have a discussion about.  That's not to say he would be open to the latter but it adds another level to the conversation.

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    • 8 hours ago, Starting late said:

      A small update. Thanks to the prevailing opinion that it's not a big deal, I went with it. We exchanged panties (and bras too, which I thought was a little odd since she is smaller than me) But I wore the panties out to a benefit dinner in San Francisco on Tuesday night. I'll be honest - I really, really thought it was weird, and didn't feel very comfortable with the idea. But....the night ended with me standing in front of our hotel room window, curtains open, masturbating with her panties on. Blame it on the vodka sodas, the giving spirit of the fundraiser, or whatever you like, I ended up enjoying it, and plan on returning them...unwashed. ;) 

      Thanks all for allowing me to share. When I think about my life one year ago compared to now, wow, what a crazy transition!

      So, now that you worn the bra and panties, what are your feelings about doing it. Would you do it again? Did you get any special feelings from it ? As far as the bra, size would have been a concern for me. Do you ever wonder what those panties went thru after you returned them?

    • One of our current playmates has a vasectomy and when he cums there really isn't much there at all but that's the closest I've seen to an ejaculate-free orgasm.

    • I do it all the time … but it’s due to modern pharmaceuticals. I’m on a med named Silodosin to treat BPH (enlarging prostate). One of the possible side effects — and I have it — is called retrograde ejaculation. Rather than being ejaculated out, the semen runs back into the bladder and you just wind up getting rid of it when you pee. So unlike those men who wish they could hold it back, I actually wish I could still “shoot”.

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